My mother-in-law pointed out that I never mentioned Sofie on this page like I did Ella. I found that curious, as I didn’t even recall mentioning Ella on this page. So I came on over and took a look and there it is. Me talking about how sweet Ella was being on that day, over 10 years ago! Well, now she’s much older and a teenager. So on occasion, when there’s no witnesses, I might get a hug and she might want me to spend some time with her. Daddy is just embarrassing now. Too loud and saying “strange things”, which effectively means anything I say, but as I understand it that is pretty normal from a teenager. In any event, I’m still thankful for my big girl.
But the little one! Sofie of course does not think I am embarrassing. Like Ella did long ago, she thinks I’m funny and wants me to come play with her often. I am, of course, extremely thankful for her. She is the snuggler of the family. She will hug you when you feel bad, hold your ear to comfort you, look you deep in your eyes and tell you she loves you. She will compliment you, and care for you. She’s an extremely sweet and vibrant child.
Writing these quick paragraphs and reviewing how I periodically visit this blog, makes me wish I wrote on it more. Truth be told, I started keeping a journal in paper journals. And there’s a reason for that. When my grandparents passed, much of what they had was lost. Getting hold of small bits of their writings or finding small things they had written to me has been precious. So years ago I shifted towards writing in 2 separate paper journals so that my children could have them when I’m gone. I’ve written in them so much, that I have additional journals for when they get full. With any luck, I’ll have enough time to fill several paper journals so that Michelle can have one when I’m gone as well as any grandchildren.
This Internet blog, while easy and accessible to everyone, is more fragile than people realize. I’m one expired credit card away from this thing going away. One security vulnerability away from it being wiped out by a curious person half way around the world. I’ve seen many online resources that existed for decades just disappear. My journals, I can put them in a safe. And while they can be destroyed as well, it’s much more in my control.
Different subject, the family has been well for anyone who happens to be reading. My wife and I spend much of our time raising our children and trying to plan experiences for them, between their activities. Ella is big in to competition gymnastics, which means she trains a lot. Sofie is just starting to learn activities like this. We think she has rhythm and will be a dance or cheerleader type, but time will tell. She definitely advances quickly since she has a big sister to follow and emulate. Michelle is her regular busy self. Big in to gem, mineral and rock hunting. We were going to go on a trip today actually, but life decided we needed to stay home instead.
So here I sit, a Thursday where I would normally be working, drinking coffee and not hurrying to get on a road for a vacation. Planning my next vacation for my family, and taking the time to type a few words out to the world. Not neglecting to mention my appreciation for my Sofie girl as mentioned!(thanks Nana) And hoping that you, who happen to be reading this, are well also. And wishing you a good day!
